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Prayer: Pursuing God’s Good Gifts

In Mt. 7:7, Jesus tells his disciples to “ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” Then, in 7:11, Jesus adds that their Father in heaven will give good things to those who ask him.

What might these good things be? Disciples of Jesus need to be able to focus on the things of God rather than the things of men–pursuing the former, not the latter. In Mt. 6, Jesus has referred to things of men: anxiously pursuing what they will eat and drink (the richest food possible) or what they will wear (the most expensive clothes) as well as other treasures on earth, above all “mammon” (wealth). In contrast to those, Jesus has focused on the good things of God: seeking God’s kingdom (“your kingdom come”) and righteousness (“your will be done”), rightly pursuing simple daily bread for all the heavenly Father’s family and kindly forgiving anyone who sins against them.

To pursue God’s kingdom is to ask for the Father’s kingly power to come and empower good actions of Jesus’ righteousness. Disciples of Jesus who are seeking and asking for these good gifts will be given them, will find them. The Father’s kingly power comes above all through the gift of the Holy Spirit–“to those who ask him” (Lk. 11:13). And Jesus righteousness is found in the fruit of the Spirit: love (that joyfully shares bread and peacefully forgives enemies), the love that includes joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Gal. 5:22-23).

In Mt. 7:13-14 Jesus contrasts two ways or roads: their gates or doors lead to destruction or “life” in the end. Jesus’ little kingdom of righteous disciples has a narrow gate and road compared to the large kingdoms of earth. Most will prefer the wide gate and easy road of their kingdom of earth and its “righteousness.” Only a few in each kingdom of earth will pursue the narrow gate and road of the kingdom of heaven and its righteousness. The few who find the narrow way will be those who seek it; and the few who find the narrow door will be those who knock at it.


Judge not?

Jesus’ statement, “judge not, that you be not judged,” (Mt. 7:1) is one of his most memorable sayings. But it is usually remembered by those who think Jesus was never judgmental. Jesus, however, is here warning disciples again (as in Mt. 5:21-26) about not condemning one’s brother or sister, one’s fellow disciple–in this case, because of a mere “speck.”

If a disciple sees a “speck” (a small sin) in a brother’s or sister’s eye, and condemns that fellow disciple, then the disciple judging has a “log” (a big sin) in his own eye. Such condemnation will result in his own judgment (from God). In 5:22 Jesus said a disciple who calls a brother a “fool” (that is, condemns a brother as someone who is not part of the family of God) is in danger of the judgment of hell.

Jesus calls the judging disciple (with the “log”) a hypocrite, associating him with the hypocrites (scribes and Pharisees) in the synagogues. Later (in Mt. 23:23) Jesus will strongly judge such hypocrites: they make “mountains out of (small) molehills;” they overvalue specks like tithing the smallest garden plants while neglecting weightier matters like justice, mercy, and faith. This is like straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel (see 23:24). These hypocrites (“actors”) perform dramatic scenes of denunciation, based on a speck of evidence.

In the early churches, minor issues like eating certain foods, celebrating certain days, or performing circumcisions led some Christians to condemn others (for example, see Acts 15:1-5, Rom. 14, and Col. 2:16-17). Of course more modern churches have similarly condemned other churches because of minor issues such as details about the best mode of baptism or the proper way to celebrate the Lord’s Supper. The obsession with such specks also overlooks Jesus’ judgments against the significant injustice/unrighteousness of those like the scribes and Pharisees: for example, they use public gifts to the poor for their own self-glory (see Mt. 6:1-2), and show no mercy to Jesus when he compassionately feeds poor disciples or heals the sick on the sabbath (Mt. 12:1-14).

Treasures: Either in heaven or on earth

In Matthew 6:19-21 Jesus contrasts treasures on earth with treasures in heaven. He tells his disciples not to store up treasures on earth. Those treasures will not last: moths or other insects destroy treasured clothes; thieves break in and steal treasured possessions.

The word treasures suggests expensive clothes or jewelry, luxurious houses, or lots of land or money. If one is focused on those treasures, their heart (their thoughts, wants, and joys) will pursue and take pride in such treasures.

In contrast, pure hearts focused on the treasures in heaven would sell or give away expensive treasures on earth in order to show mercy to the most destitute. Jesus commands this for all disciples in Luke 12:33, in order for them to have treasure in heaven. Heavenly treasure for the pure in heart will be to see God in heaven (Mt. 5:8); heavenly treasure for those who show mercy will be to receive mercy from God (Mt. 5:7).

For many American disciples, a change of heart will mean “downward mobility”–though usually not destitution–rather than the upward mobility of a greedy world. Instead of seeking more expensive houses or cars or land or clothes or jewelry, disciples will sell expensive treasures and live more simply. They can then give generously to the most destitute; even some of the poor have modest means to help the most destitute.

Since numerous charities and philanthropies pay social workers and administrators middle-class salaries using donations for the poor, it is better to give to the destitute directly–or via someone who gets paid little or nothing for helping. This would mean seeking out, and getting to know, some of the poorest people, both near and far; and it could mean discovering (and enabling) those who quietly and sacrificially care for them. James 1:27 says pure religion reaches out to visit and help widows and orphans (examples of the poorest poor at that time).


Jesus ends his “Lord’s prayer” by telling disciples to pray, “do not lead us (to enter) into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one” (Mt. 6:13). The Greek article (the) is before the word evil, so the emphasis seems to be on the evil (one), namely, Satan, as in Mt. 13:19 (“the evil one comes and snatches away what is sown”).

Righteous disciples are to be wary of the evil one, who wants to lead them into sin by entering into his temptations. So they ask their heavenly Father: “keep us from entering into temptation.” Jesus later uses similar words in the garden of Gethsemane when he tells disciples to watch and pray that they may not enter into temptation (Mt. 26:41).

The main temptations would be to ignore or to disobey what Jesus has emphasized in the prayer that ends with these words about temptation and the evil one. Just before these final words of the prayer, Jesus has told them to pray for forgiveness of those who sin against them, and for “our” daily bread. Thus the evil one would like nothing better than to turn their thoughts and deeds to revenge against those who have sinned against them (like the disciple who used his sword to cut off the ear of the slave of the high priest in Mt. 26:51, after failing to watch and pray in Mt. 26:40,43,45).

Or instead of a concern that “our” whole family of disciples have daily bread (so that those who have more can share with those who have little), Satan can tempt disciples to think that their abundance of bread simply shows they are the truly blessed ones–and suppose that the destitute are simply irresponsible. Or Satan can tempt disciples to think that the desires of their heart are what matters to God, and ignore what Jesus has taught God’s desire (will) is, that should be done on earth, as it is in heaven. Or Satan can tempt disciples to think that their earthly kingdom, and its national interests, are just as important to them as Jesus’ kingdom of heaven; and similarly they think their earthly ruling fathers, especially the national fathers, are to be revered almost as much as their Father in heaven.

The way to overcome such temptations is to realize that praying for God’s kingdom to come includes the request that God’s kingly power would come and enable disciples to overcome the evil one. Then the Holy Spirit will come and empower disciples to do the will of their Father in heaven, rather than the will of the evil spirit on earth.

Forgive Us, As We Forgive

In Mt. 6:12 and 14 disciples are to forgive everybody. Their Father’s forgiveness should lead them to forgive the “debts” (6:12), that is, the sins (6:14), of others.

Perhaps Jesus uses the word “debts” (in 6:12) partly because one of the main sins among the families and kingdoms of earth is burdening others with heavy debts–and demanding they repay. Giving help to others is not really showing mercy if it is done to make them “indebted.” Given enough “loans,” some will never be able to repay; so the giver can demand other favors and can dominate their lives. Too many of the rich and powerful in the world remain dominant because they refuse to forgive the debts of others below them.

Some of those dominated by such debts decide to fight back; the result can be violent. Major and minor wars have been fought due to the failure to forgive–on both sides.

Disciples who forgive because their Father is forgiving will continue to be forgiven by God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God (Mt. 5:9). But if disciples do not forgive, their Father will also not forgive them. The Father’s final forgiveness is not unconditional; God’s final judgment will be unmerciful towards those who refused to forgive. Blessed only are the merciful, for they will receive mercy in the end (Mt. 5:7).

So forgiveness includes words and actions as well as attitudes: those who forgive react with gentleness (meekness), show mercy, and make peace (Mt. 5:5,7,9). More specifically, forgiveness includes not “murdering” brothers or sisters (fellow disciples) with condemning words, not divorcing wives (who displease for whatever reason), not punishing the “sinner” (no eye for an eye), and not hating (or killing) enemies (see Mt. 5:21-26,31-32,38-48). What disciples say and do to those who sin against them reveals whether they have forgiven or still harbor hatred. While children of the Father continue to speak against such sins, they do so without condemning brothers or sisters and without punishing enemies.

Give Us Our Daily Bread

After focusing on the Father in heaven and the coming of this Father’s kingly power–whose Spirit empowers a new kingdom of obedient children who do their Father’s will–the Lord’s prayer turns to a few simple requests. Since God knows everything we need, and since we don’t need much of what we want, this prayer can be short and to the point.

The first request for “our daily bread” (Mt. 6:11) reflects the simple life of “the poor in the Spirit.” The same Spirit that enlightens and enables children of the Father also gives them self-control: they give up their former greed for great things and become content to have simply daily bread.

This request is not just about me; it’s not about just giving me my daily bread; it’s about giving us our daily bread. Children of the heavenly Father are part of a family of brothers and sisters who ask “our Father” to give us our daily bread. The Father gives bread to the family by leading some in the family to help others in the family–both near and far. If they give simple gifts like bread even to enemies (see Mt. 5:42), how much more should they share their bread with brothers and sisters in need. For they know that in this new kingdom it is not the rich who are blessed; rather, blessed are the merciful, who show mercy and compassion to others in need.

Obedient children of the Father, who are likewise faithful disciples of Jesus (the Son), are led by the Spirit to seek daily how they can show simple generosity to those who lack daily bread–humbly helping where there is need, instead of selfishly catering to their own greed.

Thy Kingdom Come

Christmas celebrates the coming of the Messiah, the anointed king. And this king, Jesus, tells his disciples–his future kingdom–to pray to their heavenly Father: thy kingdom come (Mt. 6:10). This is the kingdom of their heavenly Father, and of the Father’s anointed king. The Greek word for kingdom here includes both kingship (kingly power) and the kingdom over which the king rules.

Father, it’s your kingdom that should come–rather than other kings and kingdoms that people want to come because they believe their promises (propaganda) and have faith in their power to improve their nation. Even within the kingdoms of earth, various political parties plot to gain power and rule over their kingdom; hope springs eternal for a great new leader who will rule a glorified kingdom.

Most Jews in Jesus’ time resented the kingdom of Rome, which had come and occupied Israel. Jews loyal to their local synagogues, led by scribes (rabbis) and Pharisees, hoped for a coming kingdom liberated from Rome and ruled over by the scribes and Pharisees–especially their most powerful rabbis (“fathers”), like those already in the Sanhedrin (in Jerusalem). When Jesus’ disciples pray for the kingdom of their heavenly Father to come, they also reject the hopes and dreams of those Jews who pray for their favorite national fathers to prevail as leaders of their Jewish kingdom.

Matthew’s gospel emphasizes the coming of the “kingdom of heaven.” The kingdom of heaven comes first of all from heaven. (The phrase can also be translated as the “kingdom from heaven.”) As at Jesus’ baptism, the Spirit comes from heaven (Mt. 3:16); this Spirit will come to enlighten and empower new disciples on earth; they will then be part of the kingdom of heaven and please their Father, the one in the heavens (in contrast to the ruling fathers on earth). So this prayer asks the Spirit to come (as the kingly power from on high) and enable them to be obedient children as part of the family (kingdom) of their revered heavenly Father: thy kingdom come, thy will be done–on earth as it is in heaven.

Moreover, as disciples of king Jesus obey his commands, they will also be the light of the world. They will participate in a kingdom that comes to other kingdoms, the kingdoms of earth, and shines among them with the good works commanded by Jesus, so that some will glorify and revere their special Father, the one in the heavens (see Mt. 5:14-16; 28:18-20).

Beyond the daily coming of the Spirit and being empowered to do what the king commands, the prayer also looks forward to the final end of history; in the end, this kingdom of heaven will become the only kingdom on (the new) earth. And this kingdom will never end.